Why Attractive Men Get Most Of The Women

If you have put yourself this question, then this could be for two reasons: (i) you think you are not attractive, and (ii) you are not getting what you want.

Before going any further, let me tell you one thing - beauty (handsomeness) lies in the eyes of the beholder and while it is important in the first say, 15-30 minutes of making a contact, it fades away pretty fast if there is no substance behind it.

What Is The Substance?

Substance is the real you. It is true that handsome men attract most women - just as beautiful women attract most men. However, the attraction is only for the time being.

Unless the person has an attractive personality to match, he won't go too far only based on looks. Look around you and think who the most popular person in your school, office or neighborhood was.

It would never be the most beautiful or the most handsome - unless their outward appearance was matched by inward beauty. 

Only people of substance last and win the race in life. And substance is what a woman look for in a man when she dates him, or when she plans to marry him.

This is because a man of substance would have the best chances to succeed in life and even if he does not he would handle hardship better than anyone. 

Substance is confidence in oneself, the ability to be sensitive and caring to women; substance is knowing when to lead and when to fall behind. A man of substance knows how to make a woman feel loves and cherished. Some qualities that women find important in men:

Gallantry - it is true that today women like to be counted as equal to men in every field and walk of life. However, they still love to have the door opened for them, to have the chair pulled to offer them a seat, to treat them as they were a fragile flower. A gallant man is a treasure that any women would love.

Self-assurance - men who need their peers' approval to feel good show signs of immaturity and insecurity. A self-assured man would not pretend to be someone else just to gain anyone's approval. They are confident, self-assured and would put their women as ease because they themselves are at ease with their own selves.

Ambition - women are attracted to men who have drive in their life, an ambition to succeed, the zest to take life by the horns. In other words, women love daring men who are not afraid of failures and odds stacked against them.

Well groomed - you need not Armani suits to be qualified as well-groomed and well-dressed. All you need is to be clean, and pleasant to look at. 

Forget about greasy hair, dirty nails or crumpled shirt/ pants. A woman likes to see a man neatly dressed and well groomed. He should smell good - if not aftershave, which most women consider very sexy - at least of soap. Smell of sweat is a big no-no. 

Want to be attractive to women, develop a magnetic personality with the tips given above and you will never be in want for a date again.